They are also doing it way different than when I was little. When I was little, if we ran into the house for water - no way, running in and out of the house just wasn't a thing "In or Out!" I would hear over and over. We had to wait for those rainy days to fill up any and all containers we could find in the yard. We had to hunt for water to make our mud pies. My 4-year-old has learned when the rainwater wasn't enough - grab the watering can and take it inside for more water. Smart... But I cringe every time he runs his muddy self through the kitchen to the bathroom!
Am I going to get after him and tell him to stay outside and that he is making a mess? Nope. Here is the thing - we are in one of those spring Michigan days where you don't need the AC or Heat and there are very few bugs outside - it is okay that the door is open. He isn't making a mess that is damaging anything. It is easily cleanable with a vacuum - I am okay because watching how much fun they are having TOGETHER. I mean take it when you can get it, that they are doing something together with no fighting. This summer when it is warm, will I show him how to use the hose? probably. Will that be a mistake? probably. Right now, at least they are having fun, outside and getting dirty!
I am all for messy play - I don't mind them making a mess and rolling in the dirt. To me, it is all part of being a kid and it is cleanable. They are covered in mud, my deck is covered in mud and I have a sand trail from my deck to my bathroom. I have no idea what the bathroom is going to look like - probably not any worse then sharing a bathroom with a little boy anyway. But I have kids that are learning and enjoying every part of this process. So I will let them be kids - let them make a mess and teach them how to clean it up afterward.
Here is to hoping I get all of my spoons back!
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